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Things I want to accept about myself

Posted on Jan 7th, 2009 by Alex : I-Witness Alex
Happy new year to all!

One of my new year's resolutions is that I am going to be more accepting of things about myself that I have hated for most of my life.  Here is the list:

  • Being very unfocused and distractable and easy overlooking and not picking up on things.
  • Being judgmental of myself and others.
  • Being easily frustrated and impulsive when challenges arise.
  • Feeling like an angry victim when things don't go my way and then giving up on what I want.
  • Feeling inferior to most people.
  • Being lost in fantasy dreaming of being someone everyone admires.
  • Not standing up for myself.
  • Being arrogant and feeling superior to certain people.
  • Being lost in the need for others to approve of me.
  • Being contained and withdrawn and coming across and standoffish.
  • Not being socially conscious.
  • Being dorky and awkward in social situations.
  • Being indecisive.
  • Being dishonest and looking to take the easy road.
  • Being greedy and never feeling like I have enough money.
  • Beating myself up for my mistakes and for everything else I have written here.
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Centria : Full Moon
about 2 hours later
Centria said

Hi Alex. I just read through your list and decided that every single one of these qualities could have been on my list at sometime in this life. Especially the beating up one. I pray that we all (you, me, everyone) can learn to be very gentle with ourselves when we’re feeling inferior, not-enough, frustrated, impulsive, afraid, indecisive. Maybe we all just need to fall in love with ourselves a little more? And then some of those things just naturally drop away. ?? Kathy

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